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Some Congregations Are...

     Many pastors are struggling with difficult congregations or inability to move their congregation in a positive direction. Here are some insights I have learned over the years.

• Some congregations are absolutely wonderful and are fulfilling their calling and purpose.

However, some congregations are:

1. Short term - They prefer short, quick programs and stay away from long term commitments or projects. When they get a vision it lasts for only a shout time. Individuals and families usually have too many commitments and distractions.
2. Last minute - They intentionally do not plan ahead and wait until the last possible minute to do what ever needs to be done. They are not willing to put in the time or effort to do a quality job. If they make it through a project or event, regardless of how it went, they consider it a success.
3. Minimal - They are not willing to do any more than the very least. They have a get-by mentality. (see #2)
4. Get it over with - "We have to do this so lets get it over with." They usually focus on required meetings, administrative matters, and denominational requirements. They will also focus on what they believe is expected of them by the community. Tend to resent doing what they do, especially for others outside of their congregation.
5. Appearance focused - They talk like they do a lot and take credit for more than they do. They are eager to take credit for what the pastor does and complain that the pastor does not do enough. They worry about appearance and what others think. They put on a good appearance for the community and denomination but usually live in turmoil and strife.
6. Selective - Grace applies only to some. They welcome some, usually those who will work or give their money.
7. In Survival Mode - They are primarily interested in maintaining what they have. They talk about how things used to be and often complain about how bad things are now. But, they are not willing to do anything to change their situation. Often, the remaining congregation consists of elderly people who are not able to do much or are just tired of "doing church".
8. Social- Members and attendees do not go to church to learn about God, Jesus, Christianity or to worship. Church is a place where like-minded people "make" a safe place for them selves and others. Any one not fitting into or threatening their safe place will be quickly "ousted". Theology, doctrine, missions, the Bible, morality, etc. are of little or no interest.

     Your congregation may have some or all of these characteristics. Remember, they have most likely been that way for many years. You cannot change them over night nor can you do it by yourself. Commit the situation to God and ask for his wisdom in dealing with these things. Do not forget what Moses had to deal with concerning the Israelites. God referred to them as a stiff necked people. Just be sure you are not one of them!